Sometimes I wonder what is wrong with me as a mother. Why do my kids behave a certain way? Why do they continually do the things they do? Why do I continually do and react the same way every time? What can I do better to be a better mother? Today is one of those days that I want to scream and pull my hair out. And of course I reacted badly and made it worse for EVERYONE in the house. After the tears, and having to put Weylon in his room for a good 45 minutes so I could cool off, I got on my knees and prayed for help. And I was able to calm down and go talk to him in a way that was good for him and he understood WHY his actions were wrong. He actually understood what I was trying to get across to him! Hmm, maybe calmly talking does work! Who would have thought that? LOL...Sheesh I have been a mom for how many years now....8 - and I am just getting the hang of that part. I wish I was better. I wish I didn't first yell and spank and then figure it out. But I will keep praying and keep working on it. And hope I dont screw up all my kids. I hope someday when they leave home they can leave KNOWING without a doubt that their MOM DOES LOVE THEM.

So I found the First Presidency Message. It is about Love at Home—

By President Thomas S. Monson
Blessed Family Life

“When we have sampled much and have wandered far and have seen how fleeting and sometimes superficial a lot of the world is, our gratitude grows for the privilege of being part of something we can count on—home and family and the loyalty of loved ones. We come to know what it means to be bound together by duty, by respect, by belonging. We learn that nothing can fully take the place of the blessed relationship of family life.”1
Sharing Our Love

“Give your child a compliment and a hug; say, ‘I love you’ more; always express your thanks. Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved. Friends move away, children grow up, loved ones pass on. It’s so easy to take others for granted, until that day when they’re gone from our lives and we are left with feelings of ‘what if’ and ‘if only.’ …

“Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey and share our love with friends and family. One day, each of us will run out of tomorrows. Let us not put off what is most important.”2


“To you who are parents, I say, show love to your children. You know you love them, but make certain they know it as well. They are so precious. Let them know. Call upon our Heavenly Father for help as you care for their needs each day and as you deal with the challenges which inevitably come with parenthood. You need more than your own wisdom in rearing them.”3
Expressing Our Love

“To you parents, express your love to your children. Pray for them that they may be able to withstand the evils of the world. Pray that they may grow in faith and testimony. Pray that they may pursue lives of goodness and of service to others.

“What is most important almost always involves the people around us. Often we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know. Wrote William Shakespeare, ‘They do not love that do not show their love.’ We will never regret the kind words spoken or the affection shown. Rather, our regrets will come if such things are omitted from our relationships with those who mean the most to us.”5

“May our families and homes be filled with love: love of each other, love of the gospel, love of our fellowman, and love of our Savior. As a result, heaven will be a little closer here on earth.

“May we make of our homes sanctuaries to which our family members will ever want to return.”6

“Inasmuch as the family unit is under attack in the world today, and many things long held sacred are ridiculed, we ask Thee, our Father, to make us equal to the challenges we face, that we may stand strong for truth and righteousness. May our homes be havens of peace, of love and of spirituality.”7

TALK ABOUT A LESSON I NEEDED TO READ TODAY! PHEW. Take a breath. My Father in Heaven heard my prayer. He helped me...ONCE AGAIN. What would I do without the knowledge of prayer? REALLY? How does anyone go throughout life without prayer and knowledge that we do have a loving Father in Heaven just a prayer away? Thank goodness for the prompting to get on my knees today. I am so blessed. It WILL be a good day. I will make it that way. I am not alone in this!